My focus these days is to get P to speak Spanish fluently. If I don’t pass it on to her I will feel like I failed her in a big way. I’ve landed jobs, made friends, gotten bonuses, been able to communicate in many countries because of my ability to speak Spanish. Even in places where they don’t speak Spanish I’ve been able to learn the native tongue easier. In France, Italy and Brazil for example I’m ok to order food and ask my way around and I don’t speak French, Italian or Portuguese.