Some women are like black widows, except instead of eating up men they eat up other women. On an almost daily basis I encounter women being shitty to other women. It REALLY blows my mind when it’s a mother doing it to another mother.
When someone is entering a bathroom with a stroller and another person is walking out at the same time, the normal behavior is for the one leaving to hold the door open for the person with their hands full going in. I’ve seen men hold the door open for other women, for other men…except Japanese men. I’ve seen them shimmy through a doorway making it even harder for a woman to get through. That’s cultural. But women quite often will be as rude as a Japanese man, and that’s not cultural. That’s just black widow behavior.
I’ve had mothers of teen boys, cut in front of me in a stroller handicapped bathroom line. I was with P and she had to go. This was when she was potty training and she had to go right then and there and BOTH of these women cut in front of me. I explained P was potty training. I told them they were in the wrong line. They didn’t care. Not one bit.
At airport security I had a woman make me take EVERYTHING out of every bag while holding P when she was less than a year. Security had the stroller and car seat. She was so awful another security guard, a man, took over because he saw how mean she was, making me jump through hoops while juggling a child.
You know how we say a man has “lost his balls” when he has no courage. I think when a woman loses her empathy or awareness of what it means to be a mother or woman she’s lost her vagina.
I don’t understand why women are like this. It blows my mind. I can see an older woman being rude because she’s bitter she never had children. I can understand a young woman being aloof and stupid and not understanding….her turn will come. But the women who are current moms of young children I really don’t get. Aren’t we in this together? Aren’t we the one’s who understand each other the best? What’s happening?
